iman-92:

i swear nothing in this world compares to love from a woman. and i’m not even just talking about romantic love. the way women love the people in their lives so selflessly and abundantly and genuinely is so beautiful to me. women are truly special

ohdionne:

I’m gonna be blunt: you bring little worth to a friendship if you’re apathetic toward the good in your friends’ lives. If you shrug when they come to you with little things that they’re happy about, they will eventually stop coming to you with anything and you’ll wonder why that relationship feels stale. Practice genuine excitement with the people in your life. If you see a friend try to downplay how excited they are about something just be like “yoooo! This is a cool thing! You’re a lovely person and you deserve lovely things! I love you!“ 

I think it’s easy to be someone people complain to, but it’s just as if not more important to be someone they know they’re allowed to be excited and proud and happy around.

micaxiii:

pojkke:

like i think it’s important to acknowledge that sometimes sexuality and gender is a phase, and that that’s okay. maybe you id:ed as trans for 3 years to realise you’re actually cis and that’s okay. maybe you were bisexual but now you’re homosexual, heterosexual or pan, and that that’s okay too. it doesn’t necessarily mean that you were wrong during all that time (but maybe you were and that’s Okay too!) but maybe rather that you have a fluid sexuality and gender. i don’t know but i don’t think we as a community talk enough about this

yeah, just because something is a phase doesn’t mean that it’s “just a phase”

because wether it’s a sexuality, gender or even a subculture like goth or anime, it affected your life and your view of the world and yourself.

imo phases are downright important! don’t be afraid to rethink yourself again and again!

nakedly:

You are drowning yourself by overthinking everything. The next time you find yourself overthinking or beating yourself over something, picture something simple and put no thought into it. Look at the trees moving in the wind or take a moment to look at how beautiful this world is. This world is too beautiful for you to waste your time in unecessary thoughts that are just drowning you.