People only mention Stiles and his ADD/ADHD as a one liner to describe him or a quirky character trait that makes him ~different~
Coming from someone who actually has ADHD, the way the misinformation is spread makes me sad (and a little angry). But if you know, you can write Stiles and his ADHD way better, so:
ADD isn’t a term anymore, it was officially stamped as outdated three years ago. There’s now only ADHD, with three subcategories: innatentive type, hyperactive-impulsive type, and combination type
Realistically, Stiles wouldn’t be on Adderall. Adderall is a drug that lasts four, five hours tops before it wears off. This makes it one of the easiest drugs to get addicted to. He’d most likely be on something time released that lasts for hours, like Vyvanse or Ritalin. If he does have Adderall, it could be for when the other medication has worn off and he needs something to focus, like for homework (that’s what I have)
The importance of Stiles and his meds is never talked about except for in a few fics. Sure, they’re instant working drugs, but they still need to be taken everyday. We never read about how Stiles takes his medicine in the morning before going to school
All his quirky pencil tapping or knee bouncing? Or some other random action that makes him look like he’s about to vibrate out of his skin? Unrealistic. He might still be a little twitchy, but most of that should be taken care of by the meds. This is, however, very realistic if he hasn’t taken his meds
And most notably, we never see the side effects of the meds. It’s different for everyone. I take mine at the same time every morning, and at three in the afternoon exactly I get exhausted. I pass out and wake up around eight or nine. A friend of mine doesn’t eat the entire day because the pills suppress his appetite, but around eight at night he gorges when all that pent up hunger hits him. And we both take the same time released drug. So if Stiles IS taking just Adderall, he’ll experience side effects every four or so hours. Besides that, you often suffer from insomnia, irritability, increased metabolism, and you’re garunteed to lose weight. I’ve dropped maybe ten, fifteen pounds? Went from a size ten to a size six in four months.
My point is, Stiles is supposed to have ADHD. And maybe it’s just me, idk, but I’d really love to see him written as if he has actual ADHD
Sorry to add onto your post but I LIVE for ADHD Stiles. Here’s my unsolicited two cents:
1. Yes omg, the ADD thing. I swear my therapist cringed the first time I said I had a family history of ADD. And I’m lumped in the combined type, but the inattentive symptoms are what kill me in regards to daily life.
2. A lot of people have already mentioned XR. I find that I crash pretty hard around 2 (or 3. maybe 4… I’m not great at taking it at the same time every day) so I take XR and have a quick release/booster so I can still do homework and stuff in the evening
3. Meds are a pain in the ass. Half my life is going ‘did I take them? did i take them twice? do i need to stop at the pharmacy?’ and also the ever present ‘WHEN did i take them’ so i don’t die from drinking coffee too soon or whatever the pharmacist said about mixing coffee + adderall
4. Idk I do the pencil tapping and knee bouncing still? Like the meds make me more aware of it? So I can go ‘oh shit I’m doing it again’ and then I stop? But I’m still not super great at sitting still.
5. I am a pro at surprise napping. Yet still an insomniac. It’s incredible frustrating. I’m 23 and have never had any semblance of a sleep schedule. Also right at 10 pm I want to eat everything in the world. If it isn’t bolted down, it’s in my belly. And the weight thing is a huge problem. I’ve had a history of eating disorders so that’s something that my therapist and I monitor very very closely.
Anyway, I have a lot of feelings about ADHD Stiles and I’d love to write/see more fics with it.
Time blindness is the weirdest aspect of executive dysfunction and so weird as an experience to live with.
It’s like you see the clock, the clock says 3pm, you look at the clock again and it’s 3:02, then 3:05, and then you look again and it’s 8pm and WHAT THE FUCK.
You don’t even need hyperfocus. But hyperfocus is like the Warp Speed:tm: version cause when that hits, it’s 3pm and then it’s the next day and why is the sun rising and when did i last eat and oh god i need to use the bathroom. And oh, also, you’re EXHAUSTED. The act of your brain tunnel visioning on something drains you (but that’s another topic).
Time blindness is…. having the general knowledge that today is Wednesday, and you need to do something on Thursday. Thursday is logically tomorrow, but the mysterious void of time is like ‘that’s like next week or something.’
It’s knowing you have to do something in three weeks on the 21st. And as the days creep closer, the 21st is stuck in a constant state of still being 3 weeks away, despite the fact it’s now tomorrow.
It’s wild. ADHD is literally living in a constant state of “There is Now. And there is Later.” and there’s no in between; no dates, no times; no hours, weeks, or months. It’s just Now and Later, and oh god why is is X o’clock already!?
adhd breakdowns are whack because ur bawling ur eyes out over some insignificant bullshit while simultaneously being unable to rid ur head of the chorus of All I Want For Christmas Is You
U kno what I rlly might thank u for the suggestion this is genuinely a problem for me. Does it rlly help tho? Like sometimes reminders don’t work if they only tell me once 😡