Things I find soft in relationships :
- Stealing clothes. The size doesn’t matter, the article of clothing doesn’t matter. Underwear, hoodies, shirts, pants, etc. That shit is sweet and soft
- Sleepy morning kisses
- Gentle kisses on the back of the neck during spooning
- Helping to cook meals. 10/10 bonding
- Mild PDA (small kisses, hand-holding, loving smiles, light flirting, etc)
- Holding each other tight and close at night
- Letting each other be as open as ever about anything
- Going to the park and swinging on the swings
- Taking a quiet walk side-by-side at sunset
- Sitting close on porch steps and chatting
- Cuddling on the couch with soft blankets and pillows, also a lot of snacks and a Disney movie
- Bonding over similar interests
- Shamelessly doing some talent or skill around the other (singing, dancing, drawing, etc)
- Person a waking up early to prepare person b’s favorite breakfast
- Helping with menstruation (such as buying pads/tampons and chocolate, running a hot bath, etc)
- Reading books beside each other
- Sharing smoothie/milkshake/froyo/etc
I’ll probably add more along the way,,